Reading for Pleasure in a Distracted World

Reading for pleasure has declined significantly in the past year or two, especially among young people. The reasons are quite obvious—social media, gaming, reels, and videos that offer quick pleasure in a limited time.


There was a time when people read books for entertainment, and it was their primary source of leisure. But that time has passed, and reading has become a conscious choice rather than an obvious one.


Yet, we cannot say it is completely dead. It is finding new ways to reach modern-day readers. Nowadays, most people read to escape real-life problems or to find solutions within the books they choose. Books that resonate emotionally—stories about love, healing, and highly relatable experiences—tend to perform better.


People are showing less patience, so they gravitate toward fast-paced, shorter, and simpler reads. Still, there are avid readers who continue to keep the tradition of reading alive.
Reading for pleasure is surely in decline, but it is not disappearing. It has become selective, and those who read do so with intention.

For me, reading for pleasure always offers something that other pastimes cannot.
Sometimes, even when you don’t feel like reading, once you finish a book, a sense of calmness, contentment, and a broader perspective fills your mind. This experience cannot be replaced by any other source.

Does Spirituality helps with anxiety?

Auli

Anxiety makes you numb. It steals your ability to think clearly and disconnects you from your inner calm.


That’s where spirituality can help. It doesn’t eliminate problems, but it helps you face them with clarity and strength.


Anxiety often arises when the mind dwells too much on the past or worries about the future. Spirituality anchors you in the now—it gives meaning to pain and infuses strength within you.


It helps you see the bigger picture, nurturing compassion towards yourself and kindness towards others. As if it gently says, “Why are you so worried? The worst can happen to anyone, but only for a while. Every difficult phase arrives, and every difficult phase eventually fades.”


You are bigger than your pain, and pain, when faced with strength, can even become transformative. Something meaningful often follows suffering—you just need the patience to move through it.


So the next time you feel anxious or low, take a deep breath. Close your eyes and reflect on the smallness of your problems in the vastness of life. Think about the strength that has carried you this far, and focus on what you can do right now with that strength to face your situation.


Life is not simple. To live is to face challenges—and how you face them defines your journey. Keep going, till the very end.

What does Spirituality actually mean in daily life?

Near Juda ka Talab

Spirituality is beyond the material world. It is that which connects you to your true self—beyond material pleasures and even pain.

It instills compassion, humility, love, and both physical and emotional strength within you. It connects you to your consciousness, empowers you to endure pain and loss, and encourages you to live—even when there seem to be countless material reasons not to.


But how can we embrace spirituality with all the distractions surrounding us?


Often, we turn toward spirituality only when there is no other way to find peace or motivation—when the material world closes all its doors to please or serve us. Yet, such a situation may never arise if spirituality is embraced from the beginning.


If you wish to begin this journey now, the first thing to accept is that you are not perfect. Distractions are faced by everyone. Do not see them as enemies, but as teachers. Let them try to pull you, but do not surrender to them. Awareness is the key. Learn to quiet the past and the future, and fully embrace the present moment—the now.


Bring discipline into your life. Set daily goals, focus on the process, and practice stillness—whether by observing your breath or by being fully aware of what is happening in the present moment.

Instead of reacting negatively, learn to accept people and life as they are. You will notice that you win more hearts through kindness than you ever could through anger or hatred.


Death is the ultimate teacher. It transforms your thinking, humbles you, and reminds you that everything material comes to an end and ultimately returns to the one true soul—consciousness, or God.


A visit to a cemetery or a cremation ground can teach you more than words ever could. In that silence, you begin to see who you truly are and what your real purpose is.


And yes, there is always a way forward. The path of spirituality will surely guide you in the right direction.

Difference between Peace and Happiness

Contemplating

If we generally talk about happiness, it mainly comes from external sources. When life goes on without major problems—when relationships are smooth and material pleasures are easily enjoyed—we feel happy.


However, when hurdles arise, failures occur, or loss and physical pain enter our lives, that happiness is stolen.


To be honest, this is not true happiness. It is fleeting and dependent on external circumstances.


True happiness is everlasting. No matter how difficult life becomes, you remain calm, carry on, and feel content with what you have. This is true happiness—one that comes from within, from peace of mind and heart.


Therefore, lasting happiness is peace, and peace itself is true happiness. On the other hand, happiness is incomplete without peace. This, in my view, is the difference between the two.

Merry Christmas to all…

The Valley at Night

There’s something about darkness,Which makes you adore the light more.There’s something within us ,Which guides us to our soul ! What is it that keeps your fire alive,In spite of losing your shore ?Maybe the churning darkness within,That makes you adore the light more ! ©2022 Piyush Singh The picture above is of Manali valley, […]

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Adventure is true living

Are you seeking security or adventure?

Edge of Kedarkantha peak

Humankind’s biggest strength is its hunger for adventure. Humanity as a whole has progressed so much and became so dominant because of this hunger.

There is no meaning of life without adventure, without some risks and without  exploring all the possibilities. Yes security sometimes gives you peace but progress most often  goes to adventurous souls.

Yes, adventure sometimes hits you, fails you and you don’t get the desired outcome.  But if you want more in life or finally want security in life then you have to walk on an adventurous path.

I seek a lot of thrill when it comes to travel and mostly I trek or hike in the mountains to explore amazing places which you don’t get in your daily life. It’s like food for your soul which is very essential to rejuvenate and to contemplate life in a more positive way.

Nature heals even the most tormented minds but for that you have to follow an adventurous path.

Wisdom only increases

What do you think gets better with age?

Near varca beach

To err is human and to learn from it is human too.

When you face failure you introspect , you try to know what went wrong and after knowing the cause you try not to make the same mistake again.

Similarly, if you face success then you try to repeat the same procedure or routine again and again.

As you grow old ,your experience of failures , success, loss and defeat makes you wiser than before. You embrace contentment and calmness becomes your strongest suit.

Life on our planet grew up to this level because it made mistakes, evolved from it and finally  produced wiser beings like us. I just hope it only gets better.


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Workouts

What strategies do you use to increase comfort in your daily life?

Relaxing after a strenuous hike in Gulmarg

In order to lead a comfortable life one should give workouts the highest priority because there is no comfort without having a healthy body.

I always try to take out time for proper exercise. It is good not only for the body but it also infuses positive thinking in your daily life. A healthy mind increases efficiency in your life and encourages you to take difficulties as a learning curve.

So exercise daily and if you are in the mountains then you are in for the treat. A small hike in the meadows can rejuvenate your heart and soul. It can heal all your wounds and can give you the true meaning of comfort…..

Future – A product of ‘Now’

What are you most excited about for the future?

Buran ghati

A Future is nothing without the Present.

Our minds are coded and programmed by society in a way that we always hope for a bright future, without doing anything substantial in the present.

In fact there is no future if we don’t sow its seeds in the “Now”. It’s like growing a plant by sowing a seed ,watering and taking care of it every single day. Then hoping for the outcome.

Hope resides in the coming ‘Now’ . If you have done your part in the present then you can expect everything bright to follow. I am always excited to face the fruit of my hardwork though I don’t hope much as I haven’t always got the desired result.

Contentment is my only solace where I take a deep breath and say to myself, ” maybe one day”.

Expectations hurt

What could you let go of, for the sake of harmony?

Alpathar lake

You work hard for something and you don’t get desired results.

You love someone wholeheartedly and you  don’t get the same love.

You help someone in need and when you ask for help , you never get.

Heartbreaks , pain , disappointment, frustration all are born out of expectations, one of the biggest reasons you are not able to live your life happily.

Let it go , all the expectations are mere seeds to unsettle you. You can have all the peace, happiness, satisfaction if you just think you have given everything you can , maybe you don’t get the same vibrations but your smiling face is happy enough to not feel the pain life can give you.

You are in harmony with the universe and you will adapt to whatever direction it will try to mould you.