Fighting Stage Fright

Have you ever performed on stage or given a speech?

It’s quite natural for us to feel the fear of going on stage and performing or speaking in front of a crowd. You become numb and either hesitate to speak or forget the tune or lyrics while performing. It mostly happens when you have not done it before or going on stage after a long gap.

It happened to me in my school and college days. If you are reading my blog you know I used to sing and play guitar in my college days. I felt the fear initially and I realised with time that practice off the stage is the key.

The more you practice, the better you will become. When you practice again and again in spite of Knowing that you have mastered it, it comes into your habit. And when something comes into your habit, it doesn’t require much of your brain to process it.

For example if you learnt to drive a car and you are driving it regularly then your brain has very little to do while driving. Your hands and legs move almost automatically on gear , steering, clutch, brake and accelerator since it is engrained in your habit or muscle memory.

This process also works on stage. Most of us feel stage fright and it mostly happens because our mind or brain plays games with us. It haunts us but if you have practiced hard enough your muscle memory (or habit) is more than enough to overcome stage fright.

So next time before you go on stage , make sure you have madly rehearsed your performance off stage.

When the losers Rise

What is something others do that sparks your admiration?

Alpathar Lake Gulmarg

Perfection is inspiring. A perfectionist grabs the attention of many people. People try to become like them, become like their idol , a genius. But very few become like them and so become frustrated.

Yes, it is true that all those idols , genius or perfectionists work extremely hard to become what they are now and most of them hardly get defeated.

But, I believe you learn more from the fallen ones because they are like you , because they are not geniuses and they are a mediocre talent like you. We should look for those people and wait for their rise when after several defeats they managed to utilise a single cell of their remaining strength to bounce back.

These people were once called losers but they didn’t give up. They had faith in their abilities and so worked extremely hard to taste a single grain of success. Sometimes they do not even get success but they never stop trying till their last breath.

These people teach you to never doubt your abilities, maybe you are weak but if you are living you should never stop trying.

To keep moving or to keep grinding should be the motto of life because contentment comes from your hard work more than your success.

Before The End

What pieces you want to put together?
The confusion of life only grows,
You don’t know where you are going,
No work makes sense.

Life itself is random,
There’s nothing absolute in this universe,
What matters is the end,
When everything makes sense.

It’s not about how you start,
It’s not how many times you fail,
In the middle of past, present and future,
It’s only about the end!

So don’t panic when you fall,
Don’t give up when you fail,
Just keep flowing like a river,
Which falls and flows before the End!

© Piyush Singh 2024


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Walk Through

Walk as if
Your feet want to taste
The sweetness of the meadows,
Rustling through the misty green.

Walk as if
Your feet want to feel
The pain and the fun
Struggling through the snow.

Walk and explore
‘cause your heavy breaths
In the mountains
Infuse life you never knew…

©2023 Piyush Singh


The picture above is from my recent trek to Buran Ghati in Himachal Pradesh.